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Can Grief Break The Cycle of Abuse? | Selysa Love & Monica Padilla

September 15, 2025

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How I Was Able To Succeed Despite Having PTSD

January 6, 2026

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December 30, 2025

Meet Selysa Love

Promotional graphic for a podcast episode titled "Why You Aren't 'Over It'" featuring Selysa and Nathan. The graphic shows a man with a beard and mustache on the left and a woman with wavy hair on the right. The background is divided into light blue and green sections with a torn-paper effect.

Waves of Grief, Learning to Surf Emotions

December 9, 2024

A split image of a man with a beard and a woman with wavy hair, both looking at the camera. Text in the middle reads '5 Stages of Grief Debunked.' Additional text below says 'Full-Time Grievers with Selysa and Nathan' and there's a black button labeled 'Episode 4.'

November 11, 2024

Debunking the 5 Stages of Grief

Promotional graphic for a podcast episode titled 'If Not 5 Stages, Then What?' featuring Selysa and Nathan. The graphic shows a man with a shaved head and beard on the left and a woman with long curly hair on the right, with a torn paper effect in the middle and a green background.

Grieving Intervals, Orientations, and Tasks

April 14, 2025

Promotional graphic for a podcast titled "How to Grieve with Community" featuring two hosts, Selysa and Nathan, with split images of a man with a beard and bald head on the left and a woman with brown hair and a nose ring on the right, with episode 1 indicator and play button.

October 27, 2024

Receiving Support While Grieving

A promotional image for a podcast episode titled "Avoid Caregiver Burnout" from "Full-Time Grievers" with hosts Selysa and Nathan. The image features a portrait of a man on the left and a woman on the right, with the episode number 12 indicated.

March 3, 2025

Supporting a Griever

Thumbnail image for a podcast episode titled "Guilt from Grief" by Full-Time Grievers, featuring Selysa and Nathan. The image shows a side-by-side photo of a man with a bald head and a beard on the left, and a woman with long wavy hair on the right. The background is divided into segments with teal and blue colors, and the episode is numbered 8.

January 6, 2025

Guilt, Regret, & What Ifs

A promotional graphic for the podcast episode titled "Love's Enduring Presence" featuring Selysa and Nathan, with images of a man with a beard and a woman with long brown hair, against a background split into light blue and dark green sections.

Opening to Love from your Departed

January 20, 2025

A promotional graphic for a podcast titled "The Lifelong Evolution of Grief" showing portraits of two full-time grievers, Selysa and Nathan, with a green background and event details including episode 10.

February 3, 2025

Full-Time Grievers

A promotional image for a podcast episode titled "When We Feel 'Too Much'" featuring two hosts, Selysa and Nathan, with their portraits side by side against a torn paper background and a play button indicating episode 7.

Emotional Overload vs Emotional Processing

December 23, 2024

A promotional graphic for a podcast episode titled "Feeling Opposing Emotions". The image features a man with a beard and a woman with wavy hair, both in close-up portraits, separated by a torn paper effect. The background is dark green with light blue behind the man's portrait and a lighter background behind the woman's. The podcast is called "Full-Time Grievers" with Selysa and Nathan, and this is episode 2, indicated by a white button with black text and a play icon.

Selysa's Story: Complex Grieving of Abusers

October 27, 2024

A split image of a man with a beard and a woman, both looking directly at the camera. The background has torn paper design with green and blue colors. Text in the center reads, 'Why Aren't I Grieving Yet?' and below it, 'Full-Time Grievers with Selysa and Nathan' with an episode number button labeled 'Episode 5'.

Survival Reactivity Before Emotional Response

November 25, 2024

A promotional graphic for a podcast titled "More Than a Fight" featuring two hosts, Selysa and Nathan. The graphic has a split design with a man on the left with a beard and mustache, and a woman on the right with long brown hair and a nose ring. The background is blue on the left, green in the middle, and more blue on the right, with the podcast title in large yellow letters in the center. There is also a circular logo with a wave design, and a white button indicating episode 11.

Grief's Knots: Unraveling Complicated Loss

February 17, 2025

Two people, a man with a shaved head and beard on the left and a woman with long wavy hair on the right, are shown with a torn paper effect separating them. The background is dark green with text that reads 'Men Grieve Alone' and 'Full-Time Grievers with Selysa and Nathan'. There is a circular logo with a wave-like design and an episode number labeled 'Episode 13' with a play button.

March 17, 2025

Gender Constructs & Grief

A promotional graphic for a podcast episode titled 'When You're Abandoned,' featuring two individuals, a man with a beard and mustache on the left, and a woman with long wavy hair on the right. The background is torn paper effect with green in the middle, and the left and right sides are light blue. The podcast is called 'Full-Time Grievers' with Selysa and Nathan, and this is episode 14.

When The Support Drops Off: Grieve Out Loud

March 31, 2025

A split-screen image featuring a man with a beard and a woman with long wavy hair, both looking directly at the camera. The background is divided, with blue on the man's side and neutral on the woman's side. In the center, there is a green section with the text 'How do you forgive the dead?' and a logo of a stylized tree. Below, it says 'Full-Time Grievers with Selysa and Nathan' and 'Episode 16' with a play button icon.

You Don’t Owe Forgiveness - So Why Offer It?

April 27, 2025

A graphic for a podcast episode titled 'Tears Can Make Rainbows'. It features photographs of two people, a man with a beard on the left and a woman with long hair on the right. The text indicates they are 'full-time grievers' named Selysa and Nathan, and it is episode 17.

May 12, 2025

The Beauty in Grief

Promotional graphic for a podcast episode titled 'Guided Grief Journaling: Emotional Processing' with hosts Selysa and Nathan, featuring a photo of a man with a beard and a woman with long curly hair and a nose ring, divided by torn paper-style design.

Guided Grief Journaling: Emotional Processing

May 26, 2025

Promotional image for guided grief journaling part 2, episode 23, featuring a man with a beard and a woman with long brown hair and a nose ring, with text and a circular logo in the center.

Guided Grief Journaling: Acute Grief in the First Year

November 9, 2025

A promotional graphic for a podcast titled 'No One Talks About This' featuring Selysa and Nathan, with portraits of a man with a mustache and beard on the left and a woman with long hair on the right, and episode number 19.

Grieving an Abuser: The Key to Healing?

June 9, 2025

Thumbnail for a podcast titled 'Radical Permission to Grieve' with full-time grievers Selysa and Nathan. The image features a man with a goatee on the left and a woman with long wavy hair and a nose ring on the right, split by torn paper edges, set against a blue and green background.

Rebecca Finegloss - Grieve Leave (foundation)

September 29, 2025

Promotional graphic for a podcast episode titled 'The Hidden Cost of Fine' with Selysa and Nathan, featuring photos of a man with a beard and mustache on the left and a woman with long brown hair on the right, with episode number 22 and a play button.

The Price of Numbness: When You Don’t Grieve

October 22, 2025

Cover image for a podcast titled 'How to Let Go' featuring Selysa and Nathan, with two portraits of the hosts, a man with a mustache and a woman with curly hair, against a background with torn paper edges and a green central section.

Angry at God, Doctors, or the Dead? Forgiving in Grief

June 30, 2025

A promotional graphic for a podcast episode titled 'Holiday Grief is Real.' The graphic shows a man with a beard and mustache on the left and a woman with long, wavy hair on the right. The background is split into light blue and dark green sections with torn paper edges. The podcast is called 'Full-Time Grievers' and features Selysa and Nathan. There is an episode number 24 with a play button icon.

Holidays Hurt: Grieving When Everyone Seems Happy

December 1, 2025

Promotional graphic for a podcast episode titled 'Choosing a Slower Life' by Full-Time Grievers, featuring a man with a beard and a woman with long curly hair on a green background.

Selysa Love on Choosing a Slower Life: Grief, Pace, and Personal Integrity

January 12, 2026